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5つ星のうち 4.8
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5つ星のうち 5.0
Best and most helpful book on Communication I've read!
2011/2/26
By Amber Flaherty
- (Amazon.com)
形式:ペーパーバック
I've recently finished reading The Usual Error for the first time, and already am rereading it. I've found it enormously helpful for communication between me and my husband. He and I are rather different, me being very emotive and him rather stoic, but I was able to use what I learned from this book to define terms between us that I didn't even realize were the source of our conflicts! I'm so much happier now than I was just a week ago, in my marriage and with myself because of the Usual Error.
I agree with many other reviewers here. The Usual Error is extremely readable, with bite-sized chunks that I could read through and apply a little bit at a time. Examples from the authors' lives made it easier to see where I was making the same errors in my communication.
I enjoyed this book immensely and would highly recommended it- and have been recommending it to all of my friends- for anyone who's ever wanted to communicate to loved ones or friends or even co-workers more successfully.
I agree with many other reviewers here. The Usual Error is extremely readable, with bite-sized chunks that I could read through and apply a little bit at a time. Examples from the authors' lives made it easier to see where I was making the same errors in my communication.
I enjoyed this book immensely and would highly recommended it- and have been recommending it to all of my friends- for anyone who's ever wanted to communicate to loved ones or friends or even co-workers more successfully.
9 人中、9人の方が、｢このレビューが参考になった｣と投票しています。
5つ星のうち 5.0
a wonderful resource!
2009/1/10
By April Parra
- (Amazon.com)
形式:ペーパーバック
In this book, Pace and Kyeli examine how people communicate and where they most often make mistakes. They unfold their findings in a conversational style that makes the communication principles easy to remember. Reading this book taught me things without me even realizing how much I'd retained; the ideas seeped right into my brain.
This book includes material about the traditional communication techniques such as active listening and "I statements," but it goes well beyond those. The authors discuss communication dynamics (how we communicate and some fundamental problems that can occur when we try), boundaries (how to set them, discuss them, and respect those set by others), conflict (how to avoid it, and resolve it if it occurs), and positivity (how to improve your outlook, thus improving your relationships with other people).
Some of my favorite concepts are the Usual Error (assuming that everyone thinks like you do), "We are made of meat" (my physical needs affect everything), feeling considered (how to respect others' needs without being a pushover), and the question, "what do I get out of being right."
This book has practical advice, memorable metaphors, wonderful illustrations, and I recommend it to anyone who wants a fresh approach for the age-old problems of communication.
This book includes material about the traditional communication techniques such as active listening and "I statements," but it goes well beyond those. The authors discuss communication dynamics (how we communicate and some fundamental problems that can occur when we try), boundaries (how to set them, discuss them, and respect those set by others), conflict (how to avoid it, and resolve it if it occurs), and positivity (how to improve your outlook, thus improving your relationships with other people).
Some of my favorite concepts are the Usual Error (assuming that everyone thinks like you do), "We are made of meat" (my physical needs affect everything), feeling considered (how to respect others' needs without being a pushover), and the question, "what do I get out of being right."
This book has practical advice, memorable metaphors, wonderful illustrations, and I recommend it to anyone who wants a fresh approach for the age-old problems of communication.
2 人中、2人の方が、｢このレビューが参考になった｣と投票しています。
5つ星のうち 5.0
34 Fun & Informative Ways to Improved Communications
2009/7/7
By Nathalie Lussier
- (Amazon.com)
形式:ペーパーバック
I'm an avid reader of self-help books, and this book is a refreshing take on a topic that affects all of us: relationships and communication. The book is written in an easy to read bite-sized format, and I read most of it on a bus ride between two cities.
Before reading The Usual Error I thought I was a pretty good communicator, I had read books like Non-Violent Communication and The 5 Love Languages. What I didn't know was that I kept making the usual error! Now I'm sharing my "favorite parts" of the book with my boyfriend, and we're already seeing changes in the way we interact.
My next step will be to share these ideas with my family members and friends. I am confident that this book will help you and your communications partners as much as it has helped me. Oh, and the personal stories are fun, sticky, and offer a lot oh "ah! ha" moments.
Before reading The Usual Error I thought I was a pretty good communicator, I had read books like Non-Violent Communication and The 5 Love Languages. What I didn't know was that I kept making the usual error! Now I'm sharing my "favorite parts" of the book with my boyfriend, and we're already seeing changes in the way we interact.
My next step will be to share these ideas with my family members and friends. I am confident that this book will help you and your communications partners as much as it has helped me. Oh, and the personal stories are fun, sticky, and offer a lot oh "ah! ha" moments.
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