We have hundreds of friends on Facebook, but maybe no real intimate buddies. Why is that and what are the costs? How can we fix this and what are the huge benefits for our physical and mental well-being in doing so? These are some of the big issues that are explored in this work, all while relating numerous real-life examples of how dissimiliar people have used the power of community, and specifically crossfit, to enrich their lives and improve their human relationships. Drawing from numerous scientific studies, sources as diverse as Francis Fukuyama, Hilary Clinton and Greg Glassman and entertaining and dramatic examples of real-life strength in crisis, this book is best viewed as a roadmap of how to become a better, stronger and more connected version of yourself. All of us face challenges, they vary in scale and type, but everyone who picks up this book will see parallels in their own life. Filled with powerful vignettes of ordinary people finding the strength in community to do extraordinary things, this book reads like a manual of how to stay personally connected to others, and the huge benefits of doing so, in the increasingly unconnected time in which we live. It skips the pandering and whiny tone of so many self-help or psychology books and gets right down to business with a series of discussions of how you can make your life richer, become better prepared to deal with adversity of all kinds and just generally get more out of life by becoming involved in a community. And if it happens to be crossfit, you will get crazy fit, stronger than you ever imagined and able to do things physically you had not dreamed possible. While its packed with useable information, its a quick and entertaining read and some of the stories of battles with cancer, addiction, rough childhoods and physical breakdowns draw the reader in and provide poignant illustration of the main themes of the book. Lifelong lessons for living a better existence are interwoven with raw emotional stories of loss, survival and triumph over adversity. This book is a tour de force for this psychologist, athlete, mother, wife and author who has faced her own sets of challenges and in crossfit and community has told the story of how she became a better version of herself. You can too. Pick up this book and then get over to your neighborhood crossfit box. These two steps will change your life forever, for the better. My guess is we will see more from this author, but this is one of those rare debuts that will set you on a different life trajectory if you read it and absorb the message. Get it now and tell a friend.