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4 人中、3人の方が、｢このレビューが参考になった｣と投票しています。
who wrote these stories, the women with stories or the 2 authors/editors?
2012/2/1
形式:ペーパーバック
this book is good for women who think they are alone and do not like being the partner of a cross dresser, and there are not other books out there with this position. And come on, even crossdresser's wives deserve to have sexual preferences. My problem with this book is this-are these stories written by anonymous women or written by the 2 editors and "authors". Also, the cover looks like a sex book, something to get turned on to, but really could not be worse for the content of these stories-stories of women caught in partnerships with men who have hidden sexual tastes that the women did not know about when they "signed on". It is not a hate book about crossdressers, rather a lifeboat for women in these relationships that are not happy.
6 人中、4人の方が、｢このレビューが参考になった｣と投票しています。
Reality check
2011/10/23
形式:Kindle版
Finally! A book that actually acknowledges that many crossdressers ARE sexually motivated by this "harmless hobby" and that wives are NOT selfish, "uneducated", or unloving if their relationships crumble under the onslaught of the increasingly deviant desires of their partners.
This book takes an in-depth look at the lives of courageous women who are caught in traumatizing situations not of their own choosing (either from non-disclosure or from misrepresentation of what crossdressing means to their spouse or partner). It describes their heart-breaking struggles as they learn the real truth about crossdressing in their lives. It chronicles the damage done to their minds and souls when they desperately seek outside help (often from crossdressing support groups or gender therapists), only to hear the same combination of sugar-coated minimizations, adamant denials of what they are seeing, and attempts to rationalize away the pain and negative impacts this can have on the partner.
It should be required reading for everyone involved in a relationship that is faltering from the strain of this - partners who are struggling, ex-partners (who often remain scarred for years), therapists (who may "research" by using the same resources available to the wives), and crossdressers - anyone who truly wants to understand the emotions experienced by the silent partner. These wives valiantly try to hold their families and relationships together in an escalating, isolating, shape-shifting world that tells them that they are "irrational", weak, or prejudiced if they dare to doubt the" truth" of what they are told by the crossdressing communities and their supports...and who ultimately choose to believe in their own perceptions and in the importance of their OWN gender, sexual identity and sexual preferences.
Whether these women stay or leave the relationship, it is an understatement to identify them as courageous, self-sacrificing, and strong...they are survivors!
Highly recommended.
This book takes an in-depth look at the lives of courageous women who are caught in traumatizing situations not of their own choosing (either from non-disclosure or from misrepresentation of what crossdressing means to their spouse or partner). It describes their heart-breaking struggles as they learn the real truth about crossdressing in their lives. It chronicles the damage done to their minds and souls when they desperately seek outside help (often from crossdressing support groups or gender therapists), only to hear the same combination of sugar-coated minimizations, adamant denials of what they are seeing, and attempts to rationalize away the pain and negative impacts this can have on the partner.
It should be required reading for everyone involved in a relationship that is faltering from the strain of this - partners who are struggling, ex-partners (who often remain scarred for years), therapists (who may "research" by using the same resources available to the wives), and crossdressers - anyone who truly wants to understand the emotions experienced by the silent partner. These wives valiantly try to hold their families and relationships together in an escalating, isolating, shape-shifting world that tells them that they are "irrational", weak, or prejudiced if they dare to doubt the" truth" of what they are told by the crossdressing communities and their supports...and who ultimately choose to believe in their own perceptions and in the importance of their OWN gender, sexual identity and sexual preferences.
Whether these women stay or leave the relationship, it is an understatement to identify them as courageous, self-sacrificing, and strong...they are survivors!
Highly recommended.
5 人中、3人の方が、｢このレビューが参考になった｣と投票しています。
Unbalanced and uninformative, a recipe for divorce
2012/2/27
形式:ペーパーバック
Let me give you an analogy of what this book is about. Imagine a group of angry racist white women who had a bad experience with black men. Now imagine they wrote a book detailing their experiences placing all the blame for everything that went wrong on the men's color while in total denial of their own prejudices. They want the world to know how angry they feel about their experiences so vent their feelings in a book which incidentally just happens to smear the entire race.
Is this book balanced? No. Responsible? No. Insightful? No. This is a book that deliberately projects the worst examples of broken relationships where the men are made to look like reprehensible monsters and they have no voice to respond to this defamation. Were we to hear their side of the story then we could learn why they acted a certain way, why the lines of communication broke down, and the abuse and controlling methods they suffered dealing with spouses projecting irrational prejudices.
This is an empty book of no value. Yes we learn that women feel angry,lost, confused and isolated but there is no introspection as to why any woman would feel physically sick at the idea of a man wearing a dress. Their inability to confront the core issues already condemns their relationships to failure. It is like watching a train crash in slow motion, knowing there can be only one outcome. The various authors may feel better themselves venting their ire and revulsion in public but what use is this book to anyone who does not want their relationship to founder on a clothes choice?
This book is a step backwards into hostile bigotry. Instead of learning, understanding and feeling compassion, we are drawn into a world where an already victimized group - crossdressers - are turned into Frankensteins so that certain women can validate their feelings of disgust and claim the high ground of social conformity. How could this book be recommended to anyone unless the objective is divorce?
Is this book balanced? No. Responsible? No. Insightful? No. This is a book that deliberately projects the worst examples of broken relationships where the men are made to look like reprehensible monsters and they have no voice to respond to this defamation. Were we to hear their side of the story then we could learn why they acted a certain way, why the lines of communication broke down, and the abuse and controlling methods they suffered dealing with spouses projecting irrational prejudices.
This is an empty book of no value. Yes we learn that women feel angry,lost, confused and isolated but there is no introspection as to why any woman would feel physically sick at the idea of a man wearing a dress. Their inability to confront the core issues already condemns their relationships to failure. It is like watching a train crash in slow motion, knowing there can be only one outcome. The various authors may feel better themselves venting their ire and revulsion in public but what use is this book to anyone who does not want their relationship to founder on a clothes choice?
This book is a step backwards into hostile bigotry. Instead of learning, understanding and feeling compassion, we are drawn into a world where an already victimized group - crossdressers - are turned into Frankensteins so that certain women can validate their feelings of disgust and claim the high ground of social conformity. How could this book be recommended to anyone unless the objective is divorce?
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