毒になる親　一生苦しむ子供 (講談社プラスアルファ文庫) [文庫]

悩める人生のトラウマは「親」！！勇気をもって親の呪縛をとく！！
子ども時代に植えつけられた不安、怒り、過剰な義務感、つきまとう罪悪感が、大人になったあなたに害を与え続ける！！親に奪われた人生を取り戻すための名著！！

●子供が従わないと罰を与え続ける「神様」のような親
●「あなたのため」と言いながら子供を支配する親
●大人の役を子供に押しつける無責任な親
●脈絡のない怒りを爆発させるアル中の親
「毒になる親」に傷つけられた子供の心は、歳を重ねても癒されない。悩む数千人の人々を20年以上にわたってカウンセリングしてきた著者が、具体的な方法をアドバイスする“現実の希望”にみちた名著！！

「毒になる親」に傷つけられた子供の心は、歳を重ねても癒されない。悩む数千人の人々を20年以上にわたってカウンセリングしてきた著者が、具体的な方法をアドバイスする“現実の希望”にみちた名著。

All parents fall short from time to time. But Susan Forward pulls no punches when it comes to those whose deficiencies cripple their children emotionally. Her brisk, unreserved guide to overcoming the stultifying agony of parental manipulation--from power trips to guilt trips and all other killers of self worth--will help deal with the pain of childhood and move beyond the frustrating relationship patterns learned at home.

When you were a child...

Did your parents tell you were bad or worthless?

Did your parents use physical pain to discipline you?

Did you have to take care of your parents because of their problems?

Were you frightened of your parents?

Did your parents do anything to you that had to be kept secret?

Now that you are an adult...

Do your parents still treat you as if you were a child?

Do you have intense emotional or physical reactions after spending time with your parents?

Do your parents control you with threats or guilt?

Do they manipulate you with money?

Do you feel that no matter what you do, it's never good enough for your parents?

In this remarkable self-help guide, Dr. Susan Forward drawn on case histories and the real-life voices of adult children of toxic parents to help you free yourself from the frustrating patterns of your relationship with your parents -- and discover an exciting new world of self-confidence, inner strength, and emotional independence.

When you were a child...

Did your parents tell you were bad or worthless?

Did your parents use physical pain to discipline you?

Did you have to take care of your parents because of their problems?

Were you frightened of your parents?

Did your parents do anything to you that had to be kept secret?

Now that you are an adult...

Do your parents still treat you as if you were a child?

Do you have intense emotional or physical reactions after spending time with your parents?

Do your parents control you with threats or guilt?

Do they manipulate you with money?

Do you feel that no matter what you do, it's never good enough for your parents?

In this remarkable self-help guide, Dr. Susan Forward drawn on case histories and the real-life voices of adult children of toxic parents to help you free yourself from the frustrating patterns of your relationship with your parents -- and discover an exciting new world of self-confidence, inner strength, and emotional independence.

“A dynamic, powerful, hard-hitting book. It offers tremendous hope as well as understanding. It could truly be a lifesaver.”
— Abigail Van Buren, “Dear Abby”

“I consider Susan Forward to be among the foremost therapists of our age.”
— John Bradshaw, author of Healing the Shame That Binds You and Homecoming


Bantam Books by Susan Forward:

Men Who Hate Women and the Women Who Love Them:
When Loving Hurts and You Don’t Know Why

Obsessive Love:
When It Hurts Too Much to Let Go

Toxic Parents:
Overcoming Their Hurtful Legacy and Reclaiming Your Life
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■スーザン・フォワード（すーざん・ふぉわーど）
■玉置悟（たまきさとる）
【スーザン・フォワード】
医療機関のコンサルタント、グループ・セラピスト、インストラクターをつとめながら、ラジオ番組のホストとしても活躍。講演活動にも精神的である。著書に『ブラックメール――他人に心をあやつられない方法』（NHK出版協会）、『男の嘘』（TBSブリタニカ）などがある。
【玉置悟】
1949年、東京都に生まれる。東京都立大学工学部を卒業。音楽業界で活躍後、1978年より米国在住。訳書に『私がわたしになれる本』『本当に好きな人とめぐり逢う本』（以上、KKベストセラーズ）などがある。

フォワード,スーザン
医療機関のコンサルタント、グループ・セラピスト、インストラクターをつとめながら、ラジオ番組のホストとしても活躍。講演活動にも精力的である

玉置 悟
1949年、東京都に生まれる。東京都立大学工学部を卒業。音楽業界で活躍後、1978年より米国在住(本データはこの書籍が刊行された当時に掲載されていたものです)